在对这篇留学生论文的研究过程中,我对依恋理论和“安全基础”在塑造儿童发展过程中的作用有了更深入的理解。更重要的是,我现在意识到需要向母亲提供尽可能多的支持,正如新生儿所期望的那样。对于有风险的母亲来说,情况尤其如此。伙伴和家庭成员需要成为支助方案的一部分,以确保母亲得到有效的照顾和保障,以便有效地履行新获得的职责。

 

 儿童与家庭互动:背景

The scene shows Eaton Kerr, a toddler, in a happy and playful family photo shoot with other members of his family. These family members are his mother, Kerry; his father, Jonathan; and his doting 8 year old brother, Jordan. The Kerr family lives in Northern Ireland.

 

Kerry is clearly enamoured of her little boy. In her own words, she “can't bear to be away from him” and could just “gobble him up”. This is probably intensified by the fact that Eaton had been an unproblematic infant, who slept well, ate well and rarely cried. Kerry and Jonathan apparently had an easy time in the first few months after his birth. This is evident in the casual and relaxed manner that can be seen with the entire family.

 

However, one and a half years later, Kerry is yearning for a baby girl. Having previously lost two female children, and currently raising two little boys, Kerry hungers for a female child. A scene in which she strokes her dog's head longingly could perhaps be an indicator of how much she craves another child. Kerry has a tendency for potential fatal blood clots, which is typically increased in pregnancy. Despite past medical complications and a clear understanding of the associated risks, Kerry is determined to pursue her dream. She is booked into the hospital for a medical scan to assess potential risk of cerebrovascular or cardiovascular events during pregnancy. The results are daunting and confirm that a pregnancy could be lifethreatening for the young mother.

 

Understandably, Kerry is dejected by the prognosis, and four months later, she still has not come to terms with the outcomes of the scan. Her severe levels of unhappiness culminate in clinical depression: she is perpetually unhappy and tired; has lost all motivation to carry out even mundane everyday tasks; and finds no pleasure in things that normally make her happy (anhedonia). The loss of her two baby girls in the past appears to be constantly on her mind and she keeps photo scans of the embryos which would serve as a constant negative reminder. The fact that she has named these two offspring (Jordana and Caitlin) shows the depth of the attachment she feels for them. In addition, it seems she has recently lost her father - all these are textbook triggers for clinical depression. Using the DSM-1 classification of mental health diseases, Kerry's depression would be classified as severe, as she confesses to having had suicidal thoughts.

 

It is a well-known fact that depressed mothers find it difficult to respond to their children's needs. In a poor attempt to discipline her toddler, Kerry tries to implement strict upbringing rules which are often not suitable to Eaton's developmental phase. This is clearly corroborated by the evidence of Eaton's corresponding stunted development. However, the little boy is shown as striving to obey his mother, only becoming rebellious at the often-dreaded bedtime etc, thus showing signs of his first battle for independence at eighteen months.

 

Poor sleep hygiene that is common among depressed patients is also proving to be problematic in the mother-child relationship. In the video, classifying humans according to their sleep patterns, Eaton is categorised as a lark - early to bed and early to wake; while Kerry is a contradicting owl - who is up till late at night and, consequently, stays in bed till late in the afternoon. This means that Eaton is often up, for hours, sometimes for up to three and a half hours, crying for his mother before he gets any attention. He is losing numerous battles for his independence in this 'power struggle and is learning that he has no control over his environment. Although it is not voiced in the videotape, the constant absence of Eaton's father, Jonathan, suggests possible family problems. He has to leave for work early as he helps run the family energy business, and appears to be blissfully unaware of the problems in his home. Therefore, Kerry is probably going through these difficult times alone. Without the vital family and social support, her depression is likely to worsen and would essentially adversely impact on her little boy.

 

Child development 儿童的发展

As Kerry is unable to motivate herself to do anything, she is also incapable of stimulating the young Eaton. Her apparent insensitivity to his emotional needs is clearly evident and would be detrimental to the child's development. This is seen with simple tests as outlined below:

 

Progress testing: carried out by a child development specialist with picture books and block shapes. The results of this showed that Eaton could complete less than one third of his tasks and is behind other children of his chronological age.

Empathy testing: using a scientifically based questionnaire, Kerry scored high on the empathy testing. However, she has been unable to pass this on to Eaton who scored very low on these tests, having a tendency towards blatant aggression towards not just his mother, but also to his eight-year old brother, Jordan. This sort of behaviour could lead to bullying traits in the future.

Interaction experiment: this shows that Kerry is unwilling to allow Eaton grow and learn. By limiting his playtime to toys and games that don't stimulate him, she is inadvertently limiting his development, probably in an unconscious and failing attempt to foster attachment to her. It seems she doesn't want him to gain independence, but would rather he remain dependent on her.

Analysis of child-mother interaction: a literature review

Attachment theory

John Bowlby's attachment theory is a psychological and ethological description that helps to explain an infant's attachment to a parent or caregiver. Infants become attached to adults who are sensitive and responsive in their interactions with them. The way a parent responds to their young infant in different situations is key to the development of patterns of attachment in the child. These patterns are the skeletal framework that guides the child's feelings, thoughts and expectations in subsequent relationships (Bretherton et al, 1999).

 

According to Bowlby's theory, through physical and emotional closeness with a parent or caregiver, the child develops an internal working model, reflecting the parent's own response to him/her. In Eaton's case his thought process might mirror the insensitivity that he has experienced from his depressed mother, and could potentially cause problems in the future.

 

Family dynamics: a secure base

The point of attachment should ideally provide a secure base from which the child can explore the environment and return when he/she feels fearful. If Eaton lacks that secure haven, his mental health would be compromised.

 

In his book, A Secure Base, John Bowlby (1998) describes the initiation of the mother-infant interaction. He highlights an initial elation and extreme possessiveness immediately after delivery. This phase was probably evident in Kerry, in the first few months when she stated her joy and reluctance to let Eaton out of her sight. However, the well documented lively social interaction alternating with phases of disengagement may have developed a pronounced effect of the latter phase, especially after the disheartening results of her hospital scan.

 

Peri- and post-natal conditions that could affect (hinder or foster) positive attachment and the effective formation of a secure base, as outlined by Bowlby (1998) are outlined below:

 

Adequate support for the mother with other aspects of household chores, etc.

A secure base for the mother herself

Length of separation from the baby in the hours and days following delivery

Birth experience

Attitudes and expectations expressed by the mother during her pregnancy

It is not clear from the brief clips of the videotape which, if any, of the above factors are applicable to Kerry's experience. However, interpreting non-verbal communication and appearances, I think it is possible that Kerry receives little or no support around the house, especially as Jonathan departs for work early and eight-year old Jordan would be if limited help. This proposed lack of support could mean that Kerry does not have her own personal security base and might have been in need of assurances. While we are not privy to Kerry's birth experience during the delivery of little Eaton, her past medical history, in addition to that statement “I've cheated life once alreadya

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